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Waiting

We are all waiting for something. Something to change our lives for the better. A better job, partner, relationships or environment etc. We keep on waiting and hoping for a better something.    Having hope is good. In fact that's the only thing that keeps us going. We are all going towards some destination hoping that situations and people will see us or react differently towards us. Sometimes waiting can be tedious and tiring, especially when a great deal of work is put towards it. Everyone just keeps saying it's going to turn out for the better. But have you even wondered why you are not already in a better situation. What is holding you back? Why have you not put yourself in that better situation yet? Or maybe you are already there and you haven't noticed it. Better than you were a few years, months or weeks ago.   Think of all the situations, the experiences and challenges we have dealt with. We are better for it. We have come out stronger than we t...

Changes

http://www.shanemyersphoto.com/mostpopular/e68e78bdd Changes. This is constant. Nothing else is as certain as this. Everything and everyone experiences changes. We all know this and yet we resist. As much as change is consistent, fear of change comes along for the ride. Very recently, I experienced how much changes can affect people on a large scale. We all believe that change is necessary when situations are not exactly ideal. However, mere talk of change can bring about hysteria in a massive scale. Just think about all the social media messages that get passed around when something changes. People start panicking and the next thing you know messages turn into gossip and all the negative 'what ifs' come out to play havoc. "What if this happens? What if that is said?" can also be used rather positively. For example "What if I try this new food and I love it?" or "What if I go out today and meet someone new who might just tu...